How to Start Over If You’ve Lost Your Virginity

    Secondary virginity is a decision to abstain from sexual activity, starting with today and continuing until the day you get married. It’s an opportunity to start over. Your physical virginity may be lost,
but virginity is more than just a physical state. It’s an attitude, a frame of mind. It’s manifested in the
way you look at yourself and others.

    Secondary virginity is a time to change bad habits and heal past wounds. It allows you to clean and renew yourself prior to marriage.

Why do people choose Secondary Virginity?


Young adults say...

    “I didn’t like being used.”

    “We were so much into sex that we never became friends.”

    “Just because I made a mistake doesn’t mean I have to keep on making the same mistakes.”

    “I’m going to wait because I have hurt a lot of people as well as myself and I want to change my life for the best, for me and for my future children.”

Five Steps to Becoming a Secondary Virgin